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Post by insanegermansystem on Nov 3, 2013 14:52:23 GMT
because she holds onto things. OCD, ADD, and a hoarder. its not pleasant. she always wants to know my work schedule, what I'm doing how my day was etc. I get that she cares and just wants to help but we get into arguments over the smallest things because I'll have one viewpoint (you don't need to know my work schedule at all unless I'm with you that weekend, and if in was at work during the week I wouldn't answer anyways). and her viewpoint is (well I don't wanna bother you if you're at work and yes I do need to know in case I wanna come by and see you or something) etc. then it just sprials down from there.
-Host
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Post by SecondhandHeart24 on Nov 3, 2013 22:32:46 GMT
So like back and forth things then?
Maybe try to find a balance with her, tell her some things but not everything about you. Maybe just enough so she won't feel left out, but still feel like she is in your life and not too much to the point where you feel like your mom is attached to you and in your business all the time.
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Post by insanegermansystem on Nov 4, 2013 5:41:16 GMT
I've tried that. tried to find a balance for years. never been able to find one for long.
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Post by SecondhandHeart24 on Nov 4, 2013 6:54:28 GMT
That sucks. Well I guess just try to get out of there when you can since it seems you have tried everything but nothing really works.
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Post by insanegermansystem on Nov 6, 2013 1:14:09 GMT
yeah...I told my therapist via email and she said "make sure you're not using this as an excuse for inappropriate aggressive impulses". so..yeah. I wasn't using it as an excuse...*sigh*
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-Sofelia